Valerie Mehlenbacher-Tears

Valerie Mehlenbacher-Tears

Valerie Mehlenbacher-Tears, age 90, passed away peacefully on Thursday (April 23, 2026), after a long and courageous battle with dementia.

Born on March 24, 1936, Valerie lived a life centered on love, family, and resilience. She was a devoted mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother whose presence brought comfort and strength to those around her. Valerie was very active and found joy in life’s simple pleasures—playing cards, enjoying picnics, and, most of all, spending time surrounded by her beloved family. Valerie had a wonderful sense of humor and always knew how to make those around her laugh. She also had a deep love for old country music, which brought her much joy throughout her life.

Valerie dedicated over 40 years of her career to North American Phillips Lighting (formerly Westinghouse), where she was known for her strong work ethic and commitment. She was also an active member of the Pulteney Ladies Auxiliary for many years, where she built lasting friendships and contributed to her community.

She is survived by her six loving children: Florence (John) Updike, Lawrence Mehlenbacher, Doris Gilbert (Jack Ravis), Norman Edwin Mehlenbacher, Brian (Kelly) Mehlenbacher, and Norma (Russell) Hall. Valerie’s legacy continues through her 12 grandchildren, 27 great-grandchildren, and 9 great-great-grandchildren, all of whom she cherished deeply.

She was predeceased by the love of her life, her husband, Norman Charles Mehlenbacher, with whom she shared a lifetime of love and partnership.

Valerie is also survived by several nieces, nephews, and many dear friends and extended family members who will remember her kindness, strength, and enduring love.

The family will be holding a Celebration of Life from 1-4 p.m. SUNDAY  (May 24, 2026), at the Bath VFW.

The Bishop & DeSanto Funeral Home, 35 Main St., HAMMONDSPORT is honored to assist Valerie’s family with the arrangement.

Online condolences or remembrances of Valerie are welcome at bishopdesanto.com or on the Facebook page of Bishop-Johnson & DeSanto Funeral Home.